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I sit down most times and ask myself this question, "why do marriages of nowadays crash so early?".
I certainly am no marriage counselor neither am I married, but I am very well aware of the fact that in the near future I will be. The answer to the question above I have been unable to provide until I watched this movie "WAR ROOM."
People might begin to ask, what will an unmarried girl know about this delicate issue, but you'll be shocked to know. First, I post this not for married women of nowadays, but for the young women of today and the futures of tomorrow. Most women
before they divulge into marriages don't know how to forgive. Now, forgiveness is not all about saying it its also about acting it, when your husband has annoyed you to the fullest, acting on impulse or fighting is not an option, rather sitting and thinking about the issue before acting. Some women might ask again, must a man always be right? The answer is No but trying to make him understand this the harsh way is the problem!
A friend once told me, a man only sees things in monochrome, black OR white. Take note of the "or" in capital while women tend to see things in different colors.
Second, women of nowadays try to claim superiority in homes believing that they too should be the head. Genesis2:21-24.
NOTE; Most women spend their times trying to prove that they are able to "rub shoulders" with their husbands,not putting into consideration that men do what they can do, while women do what women can do better.
This simply means that God created man out of the sand, so basically a man is to provide for his family, which a woman can do too; but God created woman out of mans rib and this solely means that a woman has the job of mainly building up the man and family and not struggling to be a MAN.
I sit down most times and ask myself this question, "why do marriages of nowadays crash so early?".
I certainly am no marriage counselor neither am I married, but I am very well aware of the fact that in the near future I will be. The answer to the question above I have been unable to provide until I watched this movie "WAR ROOM."
People might begin to ask, what will an unmarried girl know about this delicate issue, but you'll be shocked to know. First, I post this not for married women of nowadays, but for the young women of today and the futures of tomorrow. Most women
before they divulge into marriages don't know how to forgive. Now, forgiveness is not all about saying it its also about acting it, when your husband has annoyed you to the fullest, acting on impulse or fighting is not an option, rather sitting and thinking about the issue before acting. Some women might ask again, must a man always be right? The answer is No but trying to make him understand this the harsh way is the problem!
A friend once told me, a man only sees things in monochrome, black OR white. Take note of the "or" in capital while women tend to see things in different colors.
Second, women of nowadays try to claim superiority in homes believing that they too should be the head. Genesis2:21-24.
NOTE; Most women spend their times trying to prove that they are able to "rub shoulders" with their husbands,not putting into consideration that men do what they can do, while women do what women can do better.
This simply means that God created man out of the sand, so basically a man is to provide for his family, which a woman can do too; but God created woman out of mans rib and this solely means that a woman has the job of mainly building up the man and family and not struggling to be a MAN.
Building a career before marriage is important, and beneficiary, so don't rush into a marriage when you don't feel accomplished as a single lady;it certainly would show when you are in a marriage and you feel the need to be more.
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Put God first in your life and every other thing will fall into place.
- By Victoria Okeke
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