In this life, I've come to realize that most people are not what they think they are. There are always categories that people fall into. In high school/sec school, in university/college. Many people live fake lives all because they are trying to please every other person but themselves which is not the way it is meant to be. I have a strong feeling that no matter how perfect people's lives seem, they always have something that they can't obviously show to the outside world.
For example, there's a movie called The D.U.F.F. which stands for Designated Ugly Fat Friend. In the movie, a girl never knew that she was the DUFF among her friends. But her best friend, which was her childhood friend made her to see through it and then helped her to get over it but in the end, they fell in love and they both realized that its not always about what people think but most times its about what you think of yourself that matters.
I complain when people exhibit self love but deep inside I know that its one of the best things that you can do for yourself. Never let anybody make you feel ugly or stupid, God didn't make you that way. He made you in His own image.
Love your self but don't forget to also love your neighbor as you love yourself.
- RUKKY UJARA.